Paradigm Shift #1: It's only natural to fall for someone else apart from your husband/wife.

Paradigm Shift #2: Men and women have different jealousy triggers. 

Paradigm Shift #3: We are design to fall in love.

Paradigm Shift #4:Monkey see, Monkey DON'T do.

Paradigm Shift #5: You are a product of choice, not of circumstances.

via ehow