Relationship End Up Hacks

Although you spend a great time during a relationship, sometimes you have to end it up when it should be.

10. You no longer look forward to spending time alone with your partner.

9. You begin comparing your partner to others.

8. You criticize or “micro-manage” your partner.

7. You start trying to change your partner.

6. You re-connect with ex lovers.

5. His or her jokes are no longer funny.

4. You’re doing all the giving – or all the getting.

3. You constantly find ways to include others in your activities.

2. Your friends no longer like being around you when you’re with your partner.

1. You no longer feel good about yourself.

Avoidance – Many people in unhealthy relationships simply avoid facing reality.

Burnout – Although many can carry out romance throughout their entire relationships, the actual honeymoon period does have to end, in reality.

Compatibility Issues – Opposites attract; or do they? Sure it’s great to have some “spice” in your life.

Devotional Void – A lack of commitment or ardent love can make for unhappy relationships.

Enthusiasm Dwindles – If you don’t add in some spice once in awhile, you can get the same old, same old.

Forgiveness Void – No one is perfect. Mistakes are a part of life.

Guise – Simulated relationships or those under the guise of having a solid, happy relationship are not destined for success, on the whole.

Harm – Harmful thoughts, words and actions can sure lead to unhealthy relationships.

Indulgence – Instant gratification or indulgence of unhealthy behaviors is a sign of trouble.

steps:

Pick an appropriate place. The less public, the better. Remember, ending a relationship is a humbling experience. Don't do it in a place where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more vulnerable than necessary.
Choose the right time. Avoid holidays and special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries at all costs. Do you really want your ex remembering your insensitivity every time that day rolls around?
Do it in person. If the relationship is relatively new, maybe you can get away breaking up over the phone. But come on, if you've been out on more than a handful of dates, isn't that kind of harsh?
Be honest but sensitive. No one likes to get dumped. But we at least appreciate the truth when it's over. Unless, of course, the truth is you've stopped finding him/her attractive, you've met someone better, or that you're just plain bored with the relationship.
Keep your emotions in check. Don't seem too happy about the breakup: you'll come off as mean-spirited. Just be kind, caring, and considerate.
Don't react. Some people don't handle rejection well. Some people yell, scream, cry. Yes, that sucks. But it doesn't mean you should react to their meltdown. Remember, rejection is tough. You've already got the upper hand by being the dumper. Let the dumpee behave ridiculously if they choose to. And if their tantrum escalates, get the heck out of there!