Learn how to keep a secret smartly

Keeping a secret can be difficult, and when it is a juicy secret it might be near impossible. It takes a great deal of willpower and determination, not to want to tell someone what you just heard. If you feel that you do not have the willpower necessary, then do not put yourself in the position of even hearing a secret.

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3 Tips from lifespy

lifehacker lifehacker - 5 months ago

  • Add a lot of integrity
  • control your impulse.
  • Don’t provoke people into squeezing the secret out of you.

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8 Tips from listafterlist

lifehacker lifehacker - 5 months ago
  1. Keep your motivator in mind.
  2. Ask how long you need to keep this secret.
  3. Force yourself to just not tell!
  4. Never drop any hints that you have a secret.
  5. Understand that if someone becomes aware of your secret's existance, stay away from "20 Questions."
  6. Never bring up the topic of or involving the secret if you can help it.
  7. Remain defensive.
  8. Lie, if necessary, but keep it as a last resort.

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Tips from wikihow

lifehacker lifehacker - 5 months ago
  • If you feel like you're going to blab, let the secret out in a safe way. Write it down in a notebook or journal, but be sure to keep this in a place where nobody will find it.
  • Having a quiet conversation with your pet about it can also help. They can't talk. They just listen. It's comforting to know that someone living and breathing is listening to you.
  • Sometimes it's necessary to tell a person, but be VERY careful in choosing who you confide in. Anyone has a possibility of spreading a secret. Anyone. The best way to keep information from spreading is to not let it out to spread in the first place.
  • Choosing a confidant outside of a certain circle, will help. The person to whom you divulge your secret will not tell your other friends if the two have no connection in life, and are not ever going to have a reason to speak to each other.
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    5 more tips on keeping secret

    lifehacker lifehacker - 5 months ago
    1. If you feel like you're going to blab, let the secret out in a safe way.
    2. Having a quiet conversation with your pet about it can also help.
    3. Sometimes it's necessary to tell a person, but be VERY careful in choosing who you confide in.
    4. Choosing a confidant outside of a certain circle, will help.
    5. Warning - There are some situations where it's actually better to let the secret out in the open.

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