Determine your Beliefs, or Do Your Beliefs Determine You?

Have you ever wondered why you believe what you believe? Have you ever considered where your beliefs came from? How they got there? Was it an intentional process? Did you embrace those beliefs consciously or did you just wake up one day and there they were; curiously stuck inside your head? 

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So how do we change our beliefs?

smarter smarter - 11 months ago

1. De-emotionalise the process. 

2. Do what scares you

3. Hang out with different people.

4. Expose yourself to different environments, cultures, ideas, thinking. 

5. Think for yourself. 

6. Work hard to over-ride your default setting.

via lifehack

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Part Three

smarter smarter - 11 months ago

1. We’re all largely driven, motivated, limited, empowered and controlled by our beliefs.

2. We have positive, negative and incidental beliefs.

3. Beliefs typically form over a long period of time. 

4. They often develop with no real effort, input or awareness on our part. We rarely make conscious decisions about them; they take root in spite of us.

5. They are the result of our influences and our experiences.

6. We know that in certain situations and circumstances, there exists a level of pressure to align our beliefs and thinking with the majority in order to be accepted, valued and respected as part of that group.

7. Having different beliefs to the majority, or changing your beliefs won’t always be well received. 

8. Quite often we adopt the beliefs of others. 

9. I like the idea of being part of a group where identical beliefs and consensual thinking is not a pre-requisite for membership. 

10. We should re-examine, question and test our beliefs to determine whether they empower us or limit us.

11. Just because you’ve believed something for a long time doesn’t mean it’s right.

12. We have an emotional attachment to some beliefs and the thought of letting go of them scares the crap out of us. 

13. In an effort to align our beliefs, thinking and behaviour with the group, we often lose US. 

 

 

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Part Two

smarter smarter - 11 months ago
  • Catholic Craig
  • Sister Mary Patricia
  • No Hat Here
  • It’s in Our DNA
  • The Pressure to Conform
  • The Brain Hijacker
  • It Ain’t a Cult
 

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Part One

smarter smarter - 11 months ago

 

  • Where do our Beliefs Come From
  • Under-Achievement Central
  • But What if it Ain’t True?
  • “Our ability to effectively change a belief, will be largely determined by our level of emotional investment in that particular belief.”
  • Is Religion an Emotional or a Spiritual Thing?
  • What do You Believe about that Whole Messiah Thing?
  • A Different Truth
  • So Where do our Beliefs Come From?
  • Different Types of Beliefs