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1. Be aware and notice your feelings, don't suppress them e.g. my blood is boiling
2. Recognise and label your feelings e.g. I am feeling angry
3. Decide whether you can talk about them or take some other action.
4. If you can't, ask why not and check whether you are making excuses.
5. Decide how to talk about your feelings, where and when.
6. Try talking to a friend, spouse or even the person who triggered the emotion.
7. Relieve the tensions by doing something physical, walking, gardening etc
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